Nora Ephron was the Queen of Romantic Comedy (Rom-Com). As a writer and director, she somehow knew how to drill down into her own pain and joy, and magically pull out a story that made us laugh — and cry: the perfect combination of emotions that make a good story.
Much has been written today about her life — and it was a big life, filled with a long list of accomplishments. When I read that she had died, I was saddened because she inspired me. And, as a writer, I deeply resonate with the writer in her. In an odd way, I felt as though a part of me had died.
I had read a lot of Ephron’s work over the years. When I wrote the first draft of a romantic comedy screenplay, I looked to Ephron for inspiration and the key to a successful script. I studied the script When Harry Met Sally, and could really see Ephron in the character of Sally.
After reading I Feel Bad About My Neck, I thought about my neck in ways I had not thought of before. I started to see the aging process.
As a writer, she has been compared to Dorothy Parker, another writer I admire. I respect them both for their talent and drive — and style.
A number of friends have asked me today what I will be doing for the upcoming long weekend. I think I will watch When Harry Met Sally one more time. I never tire of it.
Thanks, Nora, for the inspiration.
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Shannon
thanks for your excellent post on the sad and too early passing of Nora Ephronand she told me much about my own life, its smallness and universality, and made her characters part of our sisterhood
Judith
Thanks for commenting, Judith. I hope you are well. Thinking of you…
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